@matigo it does! I was saying to a work colleague today - “how is it we’re in May … already?” Pretty soon it’ll be tax time and the rest of the year will fly by.
// @phoneboy
@matigo year before last. That would’ve been Skyward Sword.
// @phoneboy
@matigo Ain’t that the truth. Just taking some time out for myself right now and leaving him to do the same. My only hope is he works out whatever stuff he’s going through.
In other news though, new Zelda game comes out next Friday. So apart from Mothers Day stuff I’ll be playing that for a lot of next weekend.
// @phoneboy
@phoneboy I appreciate your advice. I know you’ve been through some messy stuff yourself and what I’m going through is nowhere close to the same scale. It still hurts though, and I think it will for a while.
@phoneboy It does. I know he’s going through some stuff at the moment, primarily relating to his living situation but there’s other bits and pieces too. I guess he thought pushing me away was the better choice, at least right now. He had been drinking when the conversation happened so I’m not sure whether that has clouded his judgement too.
For now, like you say it’s all about giving it time and space. I want to be there for him but all I can do is leave him be. He knows where I am if he chooses to reach out.
@variablepulserate hehe true. The area he’s in is classed as Fraser Coast, but I find it easier to describe to others if I just say Sunshine Coast. Stops the ‘where the hell is that?!’ lol.
// @phoneboy
@phoneboy No. He was someone I went to school with (admittedly we crushed on each other hardcore back then too…). Reconnected via Facebook in August last year.
He lives on the Sunshine Coast, 3hrs north of where I am.
Two weeks since the break up, yet he’s still talking to me. Yes it’s small talk but I’m left wondering what all of this means.
If he says he still loves me, is it really a break up or is this just him needing a break in general and finding excuses to push me away?
I don’t know what to do. Part of me is telling me not to engage in conversation, if he wants to talk anything other than small talk he knows where I am.