Seems my version of urgent isn’t the same as others …
i think I’ve caught up on all my messages now. Its almost bedtime but I may fit some YouTube in before I actually get to sleep. That and maybe a handful of caramel m&m’s to go with the rest of my cup of tea.
@hybotics Maybe you’re right. At the end of the day I’d kinda be doing a good deed by asking the question anyway, regardless of whether I get an answer or not.
@hazardwarning Thanks for sharing this with me Vanessa. I think I’m at that stage where I want to find out some definitive answers from the experts before anything else. There’s only so much I can do on my own in terms of self healing. My family don’t understand the concept of having mental health issues. There’s always going to be that stigma of ‘it’s all in your head’ and ‘get over it’. The idea of therapy scares the hell of out me.
// @matigo
@hybotics one is called Psych2Go, there’s also Behind the Science and there’s another one I can’t think of right now but I’ll look it up and let you know.
// @matigo
@hybotics I guess not having the interest in maintaining those relationships makes it better for you. I think it’s a little different for me in that I find it hard to put my trust in people, but once I do and I get hurt it’s extremely hard to come back from it.
@hybotics I still think it’s unfair they’re treating you this way. But I’m glad you’re looking at ways to get out of the situation too, even if it does mean ignoring everyone else.
@hybotics I don’t know what your relationship with your sister is like but how have you two been communicating through this whole process? If it’s via email or even through text message then sometimes words can be misconstrued quite easily. Maybe she’s misinterpreted some discussions you’ve had along the way,
I wonder if the housing authorities over there work the same as here where you have to pay a bond of some kind, whether it be one week’s rent upfront for example. What would your ideal living situation be?
@matigo Thanks Jason. It seems to be going ok at the moment. I think now that I’m no longer getting a lift with my “friend”1 and the sun is setting later these days, I’m now walking to and from the train station each day. It’s about a 15 minute walk.
This is the same “friend” I’m slowly fading away from.
@hybotics It might not all be for nothing though. Couldn’t your sister look at units on your behalf?