@hybotics I don’t know what your relationship with your sister is like but how have you two been communicating through this whole process? If it’s via email or even through text message then sometimes words can be misconstrued quite easily. Maybe she’s misinterpreted some discussions you’ve had along the way,
I wonder if the housing authorities over there work the same as here where you have to pay a bond of some kind, whether it be one week’s rent upfront for example. What would your ideal living situation be?